Whether you’re exploring more adventurous or classic positions, the focus should always be on mutual pleasure, communication, and satisfaction. The Lotus Position
Inspired by the yoga pose, this deeply intimate position involves one partner sitting cross-legged while the other straddles them, embracing close for deep connection and rhythm control.
Safety Tip: Stretch beforehand and use a firm but soft surface for comfort.
How to Explore New Positions Safely
Trying new sexual positions can be thrilling, but safety should always come first.
Lap Dance
If you’ve ever enjoyed a lap dance from a stripper, this position takes things to the next level!
The top sits on a bed or couch, near the edge, with their feet flat on the ground for increased support. It’s perfect for power dynamics and delivering that extra wow factor. Bonus points for keeping eye contact the whole time.
The top lies flat on the ground with their calves resting on a chair for support, while the bottom straddles them, allowing for deep penetration. It’s like a 69, but with a twist. The Wheelbarrow
Put your gym membership to good use. Many people report discomfort and pain while experiencing unlubricated anal sex, and doing it this way could increase the risk of injuries caused by friction.
If maintaining a squat becomes tiring, resting the knees on either side of the partner’s face can help sustain the position for longer. Both partners sit facing each other, legs crossed, for some seriously intimate, grinding action. The Kamasutra app’s got your back, offering up every angle, twist, and turn to keep things fresh and exciting.
It’s the “I’ve got five minutes, but let’s make it count” position. One partner gets on all fours while the other takes full advantage from behind. It’s unique, it’s playful, and it’s bound to leave you both feeling more connected than ever.
22. For added pleasure, incorporating neck kissing and nipple play can heighten the experience for both partners.
3. Here, both partners can thrust back and forth on their sides, and the “top” can hug and snuggle their partner from behind.
15. You just focus on handling it. We recommend using water-based lube, as it can be easier on sensitive areas.
With that out of the way, let’s get one last important distinction out of the way:
Top or Bottom?
Most relationships that involve two people with penises are familiar with the terms “top” and “bottom,” but because our blogs are meant both for pros and newcomers, let’s get the definitions clear:
The terms “top” and “bottom” are most associated with the dynamics of anal sex between two gay partners.
The Iron Cross
The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs spread wide, while the top kneels between them, providing a deep and immersive experience.
Safety Tip: Use a soft surface and stretch beforehand to avoid strain.
8. One partner lies back on the couch, knees toward their chest, while the other crouches over them for deep penetration.
Stand And Deliver
Stand and Deliver is an intense and passionate position ideal for those who enjoy dominance and submission dynamics.
14. Slow and sensual or deep and relentless—it’s all in his hands.